The reason behind sleeping with them on the first date is logical. The sexual chemistry or whatever pulls us to a person should be strong, so strong that it is irresistible. So the decision made by the body is good and should be listened it. But what if you want to withhold so the man doesn’t get the wrong ideas. Well, any man that is making judgments on a woman’s taste and sexuality is probably an asshole. And the man should have enough confidence to believe that that woman is making the choice out of attraction to him not because she is a ____ insert whatever judgmental word you have for women.
What happens next:
1-The sex is amazing and you just sort of stick together
2-The sex sucks and you don’t see each other again.
Either is a win. You have either found someone you like and will be with for a while. I slept with my ex husband on the first night and we were together for 25 years. I slept with my ex boyfriend on our first date and we were together for 5 years. It wasn’t forever, what is? They weren’t the greatest relationships, but I did learn a lot and had a lot of good sex. If you sleep with them and it is a total disaster then don’t see the person again, so what? It was not going to work out anyway.
I find the logic of this sound. It cuts out all the games, you begin a new relationship in the best possible way, great sex, or you walk away without having wasted a lot of time and heart ache.