There is a lot of weird information about the yoni. Much it is directly connected to slut shaming. Women who have lots of partners have loose vaginas? Really? How does that work. If I fuck my husband a thousand times or if I fuck a thousand men once, it is the same amount of sex. The vagina is the same. Childbirth doesn’t ruin vaginas. However it takes about 6 months for them to get back to pre-childbirth shape. Menopause doesn’t ruin your vagina. Having an active sex life, using an estrogen ring or cream keeps the yoni in shape. Most women see no decrease in sexual function until 65. The lack of feeling sexy has more to do with perception than reality. The links takes you to some good facts on the yoni.